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guchaok

Question:I'm afraid i've got sex addiction. which may be like the drug abuse, just because a operant processes cause imbalance in the brain chemicals. I don't know how to get rid of it! you know, sometimes, i just cannot control myself if it happens. Could you ple

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Answer:

Hi, guchaok

Like you say, your sex addiction may be like any other addiction ... alcohol, drugs, food.

While I don't know much about the science of curing addiction, it's a matter of retraining your brain, replacing a bad habit with a good habit, managing to resist temptation--part iron will, part psychology.

I don't know what your financial situation is, but I believe there to be facilities you can check yourself into to help with the process.

We've heard some wonderful things about the Moonview sanctuary. They have some programs for helping people release their addictions. Check it out: Link

You can listen to Ariane's interview with Gerry Levin who is associated with Moonview here: Link

Answered by: VictoriaB on 1/6/09
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