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Improving Your Sex Life

Change in 3 Easy Steps

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30 Tips for 30 Days

Let's Get It On

Let's Get It On

Congratulations on taking first the first step to improving your sex life! Here is what you can expect to achieve over the next 30 days.

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Let's Talk About Sex

Let's Talk About Sex

Making your partner happy should be high on your priority list. After all, if you aren’t satisfying your partner, chances are you aren’t satisfied, either.

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Work That Body

Work That Body

If you want to improve your sex life, you’ll need to feel comfortable in your own skin. The best way to do that is to start an exercise routine.

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Our Experts

Lori Buckley

Lori Buckley

Licensed clinical psychologist and certified sex therapist.

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Ian Kerner

Ian Kerner

Sex expert, certified counselor and author

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Tristan Taormino

Tristan Taormino

Sex educator, author and Village Voice columnist

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The NEW Joy of Sex

If you want to stoke the fire in the new year, pick up a copy...

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Cwolf112

Try light bondage! It's fun!

Experimenting sexually can be fun but it doesn't have to be...

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It's Business Time

It's Business Time

How NOT to spice up your sex life.

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Not Your Typical Mood Music

Not Your Typical Mood Music

Musical condoms coming to a sexual escapade near you.

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Answer:Hmmm. Sounds like the age old challenge of thinking with your head vs. thinking with your...
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Answer:Dear Emekus, You mention that your wife has changed her behavior but don't give us specifics...