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Singing the Breakup Blues

They say music tames the savage beast. Well, what’s beastlier than an ugly, hairy, foul-smelling breakup?

Everyone has their own style when it comes to breakup songs, but if you’re looking for some inspiration, Askmen.com put together a list of the top ten breakup songs, complete with videos. Their list skews a little to the heavy metal crowd, but it’s a good start.

Some other great songs that will surely have you reaching for your Kleenex box before you’re even finished reading this post are “How Am I Supposed to Live Without You,” by Michael Bolton “50 Ways to Lose Your Lover,” by Paul Simon and “Against All Odds” by Phil Collins. Also, pretty much anything by a mariachi band or country music singer should help put that beast to bed.

Did your song make the cut? If not, tell us the best background music for a night of crying into your pillow. [Askmen.com]

Posted: 5/21/08
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  • By vivina
  • on 10/8/17 6:33 AM EST
legho150

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I am very grateful to Dr. Bully The Mighty spell caster from India for helping me in my problem, I was almost losing hope in life when my lover of 4 years ended our relationship without any reason and I consulted an old friend of mine and explain my situation to her and she said she was in same situation 2weeks back but a wonderful man who was sent to help people helped her out of the problem and I thought it was all a joke and I ask her if it was real and she said if it wasn't real so how did her lover come back to her, then I decided to give Dr. Bully a try because I had nothing to loose in trying and I contacted him on his email address which is bullytemple@yahoo.com and he replied to my email very well.. and to cut the long story short Dr. Bully brought back my Lover in 48 hours.. I'm very happy he brought my man back to me and my lover promise that he will never and ever leave me again. Thanks to Dr. Bully of bullytemple@yahoo.com

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jlh1108

My b/f of 12 years and I broke up six months ago. My breakup song is Daughtry's "Over You." I helps tremendously on my weak days.

  • By jlh1108
  • on 5/26/08 10:45 PM EST
mearly

MoZella: Amnesia
"if i could go back to the day before I met you..."

  • By mearly
  • on 5/25/08 1:30 AM EST
Kiki76

Nightswimming by REM, Ryan Adams I Taught Myself How to Grow Old, and Halleluia by Jeff Buckley are all good for a cry (breakup related or no.

Any good tunes for getting back on your feet and feeling powerful again?

  • By Kiki76
  • on 5/23/08 9:29 PM EST
oldgold

PS That's a book, not song. See what the slightest thought of her does?

  • By oldgold
  • on 5/22/08 1:50 PM EST
oldgold

PS That's a book, not song. See what the slightest thought of her does?

  • By oldgold
  • on 5/22/08 1:50 PM EST
oldgold

"In the Wee Small Hours",sung by Carly Simon (Sleepless... soundtrack), or the classic "One for My Baby", Fred Astaire in Flying Tigers, but the BEST balm for my broken heart has always (three times, same gal, same heart, would someone please just shoot me?) been-- Broken Wings, by Kahlil Gibran.

  • By oldgold
  • on 5/22/08 1:48 PM EST