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VictoriaB

Question:Are you dealing with a break up right now?

I was going to say major break up or devastating break up, but isn't any time you get your heart broken major and devasting? I think so.
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Asked by VictoriaB on 8/19/08 1 Answer»
SisterSuz

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I have been going through a terrible break up off and on since the beginning of the year. We have been
married over half of our lives together and now he is living with an ex -friend of mine. There seems to be a Midlife Crisis going on and it is very hard to watch. He has come back to me twice and back to her 3 times and I can't take it anymore. I feel like a fool but I had to give it a second shot. I just wish he would wake up and smell the coffee. He is unhappy with his work and is Bi-Polar, not a good combo. I have given my heart , soul and body to him for so many years that I don't even know who I am anymore.
Gonna turn it over to God for some help.

Answered by: SisterSuz on 8/22/08
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