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Just a week ago I found out that my boyfriend of a year has been cheating...

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aliciak
Answer:I would talk through things first, figure out why he cheated (does he have a history of this?), before making a decision to get back together or not...
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REDDFIRE
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Do I just have to be patient. Or take the bull by the horns?

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runnindownadream
Answer:Ugh! This is the eternal battle, isn't it! It seems like every time a guy calls and is interested in me, he turns out to be a stalkery weirdo, but when...
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Will this marriage work?

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Answer:I've heard that one of the earliest signs of an abusive relationship is when your significant other tries to stop you from having communication with...
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How come he is still in my mind and heart?

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runnindownadream
Answer:Hi Ciara, I think it's only natural that you have strong feelings still for someone who was in your life at a very vulnerable time. When you met him...
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tinaw31
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Did you marry your best friend? Or did you marry for lust?

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Answer:I've met quite a few couples who have gotten together through arranged marriages. One friend in particular got married after only having met her husband...
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How do you get over your first love and move on from the heartbreak?

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Dairygirl09
Answer:Since you sound like you're hurting right now, it might be best to cut back on your contact a little bit. It's so difficult to move on mentally that...
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is it best to divorce if my husband and i are no longer in love?

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aliciak
Answer:I think it differs for everyone, depending on what your concept of marriage is, what your goals are for it. Do you want to be in love with someone versus...
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