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ridder

Question:What do you do when your ex tells you he is not in love with you and I am sorry I lead you on?

In relationship for 2 years. We separated twice in that time. She said she wasn't sure how she felt. In the beginning of the relationship she said she was falling in love, however, was not sure. Her 2 children who she just regained custody of not living with them for a decade affected the relationship. She would constantly said I have everything I need, there is no reason for me to seek a relationship anywhere else. She is changing jobs and may have to relocate locally. She said she is very overwhelmed. Should I give her another chance?

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Anonymous

Answer:

This may be too late and things may have chnaged drastically on your end. But you deserve to be with someone who knows you for two and is sure how they feel about you - whether they want to be with you or not. It's a matter of choice - wait around for her to change her feelings for you ... or for someone else.

Answered by: Anonymous on 7/10/08
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