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Question:he broke up with me for the thousandth time at the begining of february, and i think this time for real. We have been dating with no titles since last december, 13 months, with no titles, "exclusive dating" and now i feel like he has dropped me like a ba

there were so many lies, so many times he disappeared, so many times he acted uninterested over the last year, i have been beating myself up over it, and then time and again, he proclaimed his love for me, told me he doesnt want to live with out me, that i am his best friend, but now, he needs to work on himself, heal from his divorse that happened almost a year ago, and his mothers death last march, that he needs to love himself and he cant have anyone in his life in a romantic way, to me this is a cop out

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