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Question:If you can keep it clean, share what turns your partner on.

Asked by VictoriaB on 2/5/08 3 Answers»
carefree

Answer:

It starts with a kiss on the neck that runs chills up the arm. then down to the toes.

Answered by: carefree on 5/3/08
I_AM_Change

Answer:

Oh, and if I looked like the guy in the picture up theres the only thing I would have to do to turn on my wife is to walk in the door LOL! Unfortunately I am what you would call the average american, overwieght, out of shape, underpaid, and overtired LOL. It is a wonder she is ever turned on by me at all LOL!@! But she doesn't look like the woman in that picture either so I guess alls fair in love and war LOL. She looks more like me than she likes like that lady :) Oh boy, I better zip it right this minute LOL. This question is too much, really you guys! I need to just STEP AWAY FROM THE KEYBOARD LOL.

Answered by: I_AM_Change on 2/14/08
I_AM_Change

Answer:

OK, um, no I am NOT GOING THERE, LOL!

But seriously, the key to turning on my wife is, oops, you guessed it, not going there, that is a secret that is safe with me. But to each his own anyways :) LOL

And NO there is no massage oil involved, wink wink, but no you did not here that with me! LOL. This site is great, I hope I kept it clean enough. We are all adults here lol, but some people can be pretty offended by TMI, if you know whar I mean. And tell her she looks beuatiful that evening... ok is that clean enough?? LOL!???

Answered by: I_AM_Change on 2/14/08
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