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Guys: Getting What You Want in Bed

You love your girl, but wish she would be more active in bed. So how do you ask her to spice things up without offending her? First, try showing her what you like, when she’s getting warmer, encourage her with your body language. And we don’t mean pushing her head down there! That’s a junior high move that is sure to annoy her. Next, try telling her what you do like, instead of what you don’t, “I love it when you…” is always a turn on. Askmen.com supplies some more easy ways to encourage your girlfriend or wife to satisfy you sexually in bed.

Posted: 2/6/08