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Question:What are the warning signs?

Did you (or do you) get a sense for when a relationship is headed towards a break up?

Asked by letitgo on 4/15/08 1 Answer»


Sometimes you do...sometimes you don't. Most of the time it’s obvious and we try to not see it, but sometimes the breakup is already approaching in the back of our mind.

My best advice: if you are currently in a relationship that you have no peace about, or you or your significant other are ambivalent, those are possible signs that a break up could be near.


Be cautious that there is no right or wrong (or permanent) answer to many “relationship” questions. Every person in this world is different...so every relationship is different.

Be encouraged!

Answered by: fots5_22_23 on 5/5/08
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