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Question:How do you determine what went wrong if everything was going great for 7 weeks until she decided she wasn't head over heels and didn't want this situation?

Asked by wade01 on 2/27/08 1 Answer»


It's hard to know why people break off relationships, but I do people get scared sometimes, especially when things are moving quickly.

I don't know if that's what is happening in your case, but sometimes the best thing to do is give people their space.

You might find that if you back off without being put off that the person will see you in a new light.

While the Seinfeld episode always comes to mind when I think this, very often it's not you, or anything you've done, but something that is going on in the other person's life that keeps them from moving forward.

I like to think that if it's meant to be you will come together again. That's my hope.

Answered by: VictoriaB on 2/27/08
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