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MJ Acharya

Author, blogger and healer of broken hearts

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Mike Riley

Co-author of How To Heal A Broken Heart In 30 Days

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Melissa Kantor

Author of the young adult novel The Breakup Bible

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runnindownadream
Answer:Although staying together is always the most ideal situation, sometimes divorce is indeed the best for both parties. No matter what your final decision...
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SunnySide
Answer:Hmm, yeah I'm not sure we've truly moved beyond our relationship. That's probably part of the problem! Everyone told me to tell my ex, but this new...
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aliciak
Answer:Do you think he is at all on the same page? What was his response like the last time?
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Kiki76
Answer:The first thing that must change is the drinking, and that's out of your power. A group like Al-Anon can provide you with support—you are not alone...
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aliciak
Answer:Yeah, definitely, intuition! But even those feelings aren't enough sometimes to make you act! I feel like I waited to long with my long-term bf, but...
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haifa1235
Answer:he seems to treat you like a child and he doesnt seem to respect you at all. he is very insecure maybe he thinks your going to have an affair thats...
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aliciak
Answer:I would talk through things first, figure out why he cheated (does he have a history of this?), before making a decision to get back together or not...
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