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VictoriaB
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If you can keep it clean, share what turns your partner on.

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carefree
Answer:It starts with a kiss on the neck that runs chills up the arm. then down to the toes.
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fauxgal
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my husband and i have been married 7 months and i have to beg him for...

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slickcut
Answer:Does your husband take medication? sometimes medication will cause this..I would have a serious discussion with my husband about this..First you need...
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emekus
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i am happly married with three kid and all of a surding my wife behaviour...

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slickcut
Answer:If you are happily married ,then i would suggest you ask your wife if she feels the same..You say you have 3 children,even though children are a blessing...
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bstarr
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Can eating certain foods increase your desires?

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slickcut
Answer:I have heard that but rather or not it is true i could not say...If you are having problems with desires you need to just stay calm & write down your...
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Changeling
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what's more important to you... physical attraction or a feeling of...

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springshine
Answer:Speaking as someone who always went with the attraction piece and failed to find a true friend, I have to say that being with someone who loves and...
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bmccracken71
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I HAVE A COLOSTOMY,STILL FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE HAVING SEX WITH MY HUSBAND...

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j4metoo
Answer:Well... Every marriage has it's own challenges. This is one of yours. Good news is your husband is in it for the long haul. He's been with your for...
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Changeling
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How to get the spark back

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Sactokaren
Answer:Make a list of things you really appreciate about your spouse and then try to thank you or compliment him when he exhibits those traits. Set the stage...
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