Recognize that your life has significance regardless of whether or not you are in a relationship. It has value because it is your life. It does not start once you have entered a relationship, landed the job or lost 10 lbs, it’s happening in real time right now.
Trust that you know what is best for you better than anyone else. If something doesn’t feel authentic or right, it most likely isn’t.
Accept that while you cannot change others, you can change what conversations and situations you engage in and how you act towards and react to others.
Mistakes are lessons in motion and, when used properly, can lead us to enlightenment and closer to our best life. Live, fall, learn and move on towards success.
Know that you are not defined by the projections of others nor must you be defined by who you once were. Every moment is a chance to work towards your own personal best which will create a ripple effect and change your relationships and life for the better.
Brenda Della Casa is an internationally published writer, author and casting producer who has spent the last eight years interviewing single, married and divorced men and women for a variety of television shows and articles.
For her book, Cinderella Was a Liar, Brenda interviewed hundreds of single women and nearly 1,000 single, married and coupled men world-wide to find out what men want, what women need and what they both can do to be their best selves, live their best lives and attract their best partner.
Her work and advice has been profiled in a variety of publications and on The Today Show. Brenda is the Luv Lady for Lifetime and an Expert and Columnist for Divorce360.com To book an appearance or commission an article, please email Cinderellawasaliar@gmail.com
Any woman who's kissed her share of toads will relate to this wise and witty guide to modern love. Cinderella Was a Liar explodes the fairy-tale myths, while offering real-world insights that actually make sense....