Call a Lawyer

When going through a divorce, one of the first things you will need to do is secure an attorney. No matter how amicable the split from your spouse, you need to make sure your interests are represented in the event you have to go to court to fight for custody, property or financial stakes.

Finding a good attorney may seem like finding a needle in a haystack. The easiest way to find one is to ask around: Talk to friends who have gone through the process and see if they can recommend an attorney. The web and the phone book can serve as a starting point.

Call the attorneys who seem like the best match and explain your situation over the phone. Be clear about your goals and expectations for your divorce. Once you feel you have narrowed down your options from the phone consultation, set up a meeting with the few that you like. You’ll be able to get a better feel for their style in person. Some attorneys offer free consultations, others charge a fee. Make sure you know this up front.

When you meet with prospective attorneys, find out how accessible they are, how courteous their staff is, how they charge for services and ask for references. Also ask for a written retainer agreement, detailing the services your lawyer will provide and the cost for those services.

Pay attention to how you feel with your attorney—you’re going to be spending a lot of time with this person and you’re trusting him or her with your life. If you don’t feel comfortable, look for someone else.