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msm1950
Answer:I think you can stay close to both, but it will take work on your part and you'll have to be willing to start a new relationship with each of them...
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springshine
Answer:Getting the children involved might strike a chord. You need to find some way to break through and get her to realize what she is going to the entire...
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LMAYO9
Answer:Hi Busy49. I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through this. I think you answered you question in your post. If your husband left you, you should...
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reader67
Answer:I just want to say that I am in this exact same situation. So I completely understand your feelings. The last time I tried to leave my husband he went...
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VictoriaB
Answer:Do you know any of her friends or family members you could get in touch with to get a message to her?
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peaceful1
Answer:I agree with you my husband who wants the divorce he is very sensitive but he never would let me in he felt that i didn't need to know. he went to other...
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grammyat50
Answer:I have unfortunately been divorced twice. 1st time he asked 2nd time I asked. Now I have a new challenge. I am 50 and the man I found and love is 57...
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