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Question:what do i do when my boyfriend does not want to be seen with me because i dont want to have sex with him what does that mean should i break up with him or what?

Asked by britt8any on 6/3/08 3 Answers»



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Answered by: veartwani on 3/13/13


Are you SURE that's the reason?It would be advisable to NOT absorb to much time with him,at this point,make him wonder who you are being seen with!It's called reverse psychology,works almost every time!!!! What ever you do,do NOT let this affect your SELF-ESTEEM,You must deal with this isue with CONFIDENCE!!!!!(Besides he can't be much of a MAN!)

Answered by: acatt35 on 7/5/08


Yes, personally I would drop him like a hot rock. Are you sure he hasn't got some one else lurking? Why put up with somebody who obviously does not give two hoots about how you feel. It seems he is just using you and not being funny but more fool you for allowing this. My advise is run as fast as you legs will carry you, work on being happy with yourself and when (only when) YOU ARE READY then find a man who will treat you with the respect you deserve.

Answered by: ratula8 on 6/21/08
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