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When going through a divorce, one of the first things you will need to do is secure an attorney. No matter how amicable the split from your spouse, you need to make sure your interests are represented in the event you have to go to court to fight for custody, property or financial stakes.

Finding a good attorney may seem like finding a needle in a haystack. The easiest way to find one is to ask around: Talk to friends who have gone through the process and see if they can recommend an attorney. The web and the phone book can serve as a starting point.

Call the attorneys who seem like the best match and explain your situation over the phone. Be clear about your goals and expectations for your divorce. Once you feel you have narrowed down your options from the phone consultation, set up a meeting with the few that you like. You’ll be able to get a better feel for their style in person. Some attorneys offer free consultations, others charge a fee. Make sure you know this up front.

When you meet with prospective attorneys, find out how accessible they are, how courteous their staff is, how they charge for services and ask for references. Also ask for a written retainer agreement, detailing the services your lawyer will provide and the cost for those services.

Pay attention to how you feel with your attorney—you’re going to be spending a lot of time with this person and you’re trusting him or her with your life. If you don’t feel comfortable, look for someone else.
Posted: 4/29/24
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  • By VAL3214
  • on 5/30/20 12:40 PM EST
vivina

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  • on 10/8/17 4:51 AM EST
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I stopped trusting people especially on the internet after someone almost brainwashed my sister to sell our home when she was searching for true lover. We were so lucky to stop her. I made up my mind never to pay attention to anyone trying to help. But something inside of me forced me to search for solution online and I was lucky to receive help from Doc.
He proved me wrong that there are still good people out there by genuinely casting the love spell which brought my husband back within 5days. Dr. was my last hope and he proved his true power even with my bff, she welcomed her first child after 4years of marriage. Everything said about dr. and his work are true, he taught me so many ways to deal with any forms of pressure in life. So glad am redeemed spiritually.

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I felt used but I love him and will always love him. We have been on and off since then. His family members has always prompted him to leave as soon as he gets what he came for because they want to send some of his relative here, so they want me out of the picture. Whenever we try to get along, he will receive call from them and then he starts fighting with me again.
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I was always being intimidated by the girls he brought home then, the last incident I could remember was when his most liked girlfriend arrived back from holiday, and he ran very early to see her, closed his office and didn’t even care to tell me he won’t be coming back again. I thought he was lost or kidnapped until when I saw several pictures he posted on facebook with her. I felt very heavy and sad inside my heart until I met Dr. Wakina when all efforts and hope was lost, he changed my husband and my husband has totally forgotten about the girl and others too. I don’t know how Dr. Wakina got such talent and I envy him.
I recommended four of my friends to Doc after my husband came back, surprisingly, he helped three of them, we are all smiling today because Dr. Wakina helped us achieve our dreams via his email; dr.wakinalovetemple@gmail.com. Peace and Love. - Anna Hector

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GREETING....... I must say Dr. Obasi spell really worked and I am proud to testify also. I saw a post on how a lady got her ex boyfriend back through the help of Dr. Obasi spell and I decided to try him because my marriage was crashing and my wife was asking for a divorce. Dr. Obasi helped me and my marriage is now perfect just as he promised my wife now treats me like a prince even when she had told me before he doesn't love me anymore. well, I can not say much but if you are passing through difficulties in your relationship or marriage, contact Dr. Obasi today via obasispelltemple@gmail.com

mariah_fan

Do I really need an attorney? We don't have any kids, but we do have credit cards, a car, and a bank account in both of our names. Can we handle that ourselves or would it be best to go through an attorney? Also, how do I change my last name back?

StellaStep

Get the best you can afford!
Don't consider this legal process as a short term debate with your ex. . .consider the hiring of an attorney as an insurance policy. He/she will be advocating on your behalf, and it will be for things that affect the rest of your life perhaps - -- alimony amounts and duration, child support, asset splits, etc. Amicable divorces are nice, but if I'm going to be feeling broke in 5 years with his 'generous offer'. . then, it's not so amicable. Get an attorney, be business-like, civil, and even polite, and treat it like a business deal. Don't ever expect your "let's do this amicably" ex is truly watching out for YOUR interests. . he's not. And, you actually can find a lawyer who wants to make it a civilized process!