Ending a relationship is hard, especially during the holiday season. Today, think of a small change that can get your life moving positively during this time. Take the focus off "the event" and put it back on you. When you do, incredible things can happen

Who needs gifts? Um, well, probably lots of people. But you can cut expenses by gifting smart. Give (and get) what you really need instead of more junk you can do without. A new fridge isn't sexy, but practical is going to go a long way this year. Trust u

Perk up your relationship by ditching dinner and a movie. Plan a creative evening with your partner. A scavenger hunt, or a free night at the museum allow you to create more memories than the latest blockbuster will. Try something new tonight!

Take advantage of tonight's full moon by sharing good times with your loved ones. Gather together some friends and family and learn all the dance moves to Michael Jackson's "Thriller" or tell scary stories. Take a time out and just have fun together.