Make New Friends

Starting college may remind you of starting kindergarten, where you didn’t know anyone and everywhere you went felt unfamiliar. And just like kindergarten, the best way to start feeling comfortable at college is to make new friends.

For many students, the first friend they meet on campus is a dorm roommate. Make an effort to get to know this person early on. Have conversations that will help you learn more about each other or make plans to hang out socially beyond the walls of your dorm room. While you’re at it, establish some ground rules for living together, such as cleaning schedules, visiting times and telephone/TV sharing.

Of course, not everyone makes a meaningful connection with his or her roommate—sometimes, you just don’t “click” and it takes everything you both have to remain civil to one another. Fortunately, there are lots of other ways to meet people. At the beginning of the year, all sorts of organizations, from student government groups to co-ed, intramural sports teams, will be looking for new members. Participating in activities you enjoy will automatically match you up with students who share common interests. Sign up and make some connections!