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When we make the commitment to rebuild a relationship, it's necessary to accept the other person and overlook pet-peeves. Even though it's tough, learning to cope with others' shortcomings is paramount in improving relationships.

“My advice to anyone who wants to improve a relationship is to accept the other person as he or she is,” says Jasmine*, who had a difficult relationship with her father for most of her 30 years.  “They might not be willing or able to change.”

Eventually, she came to the realization that her father was never going to be physically or emotionally demonstrative. “He’s never going to pick up the phone and call just to say he loves me. He is not that person,” she explains. “Once I accepted that, it was much easier to deal with him.”

Even though she felt disappointment when he didn’t meet her expectations, Jasmine learned to accept him gradually, warts and all. “One day, I just figured out that I have a lot less heartache when I see him as he is, instead of how I want him to be.” Jasmine says their relationship has improved and they speak weekly.

Read about more successes like Jasmine's in our feature, "Finding Relationship Help."


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Posted: 5/4/24
SynderAnderson

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queencla660

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Felishacool

My husband seek for divorce with no reasons for almost 4 years and i tried all i could to have him back cos i really love him so much but all my effort didn't work out, we met at our early age in college and we both have feelings for each other and we got married happily for 5 years with no kid and he woke up one morning and he told me he’s going on a divorce, i thought it was a joke and when he came back from work he tender to me a divorce letter and he packed all his belonging from my house and left. i was devastated and i tried all i could to have him back but all did not work. I was lonely for almost 4 years, So i contacted a man who says he is a spell caster and i told the spell caster what happened he said he will help me and he asked for his full name and his picture. I gave him that. At first i was skeptical but i gave it a try cos i have tried so many spell casters and there is no solution, so when he finished with the readings, he got back to me that he’s with a woman and that woman is the reason why he left me, The spell caster said he will help me with a spell that will surely bring him back, but i never believe all this he told me i will see a positive result within 3 days. 3 days later, he called me himself and came to me apologizing and he told me he will come back home. I can't believe this, it was like a dream cos i never believe this will work out after trying many spell casters and there is no solution. The spell caster is so powerful and after that he helped me with a pregnancy spell and i got pregnant a month later, we are now happy been together again and with lovely kid. This spell caster has really changed my life and i will forever thankful to him, he has helped many of my friends too with similar problem and they are happy and thankful to him. This man is indeed the most powerful spell caster i have ever experienced in life. Am Posting this to the Forum in case there is anyone who has similar problem and still looking for a way out. you can reach him here: website Link EMAIL: marvelspelltemple@gmail.com or on +2348071660388

morch606

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IT WAS A ROUGH MOMENT TO STAY WITHOUT MY HUSBAND FOR ALMOST A YEAR. BUT TODAY, THE MAN I LOVE WHOLEHEARTEDLY HAS BEEN CLEANSED OF EVERY NEGATIVE SPIRITUAL OPERATION BY DOCTOR WAKINA.

francejes6

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katherine00

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calisha

ive been in a relationship for neally 12yrs, were high school sweethearts. He has recently turned around and said that he wants his freedom as his been tied down since he was 17, as we had a child at 23. I have finally found out why this is that he is wanting this, and he said his getting bored. Is there anything that i can do to help with my situation. Our sexual pleasures in teh last couple of days have been great and his really enjoying it, but im still worried.

  • By calisha
  • on 3/5/12 11:30 PM EST