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Question:I have been growing "spirtually" over the past year or so,(The Secret, James Ray,Wayne Dyer -Tao) but my wife seems more fixed on material things and is not willing to work on herself. Is our time together coming to an end?

Asked by Dave1964 on 3/18/08 1 Answer»


I don't think so. At least I don't want to think that your relationship has to end because right now you're growing apart. While we may not be able to change people we can inspire them to change or we can choose to honor them for who they are and remember what attracted us to them in the first place

I was just reading an interesting story about a similar instance you might be able to relate to. Here's the link to the story:

And, if awakening the joy doesn't help rekindle your relationship you can always try to interest your partner in using the secret to manifest all those materials things. You just might win her over. : )

Answered by: VictoriaB on 3/19/08
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