I finally got divorced from a man who never worked during 8 years marriage. I had 2 boys with him (8, 4). I was married before and had 2 teens. They grew up with their dad. I fall in love with 19 years old who self medicate with drugs and has criminal records (not violent).

Not even my parents treated me like a kid since I was 3. When he treat me like a baby, I enjoy that. But this relationship has been causing many problems to my life and kids. Should I just dump him? I don' want to live in the society's rule. How can I give affection to my inner child? Thank you!