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angieree

Question:My husband keeps telling me he wants a divorce (years now), but does nothing to act on it. He wants me to start the process so he can say that I did it. He is verbally abusive, and all because of something that happened before we were married. He said

The issue driving this is that his brother and I had a semi fling back when I was 17. Although I really wanted my husband, I settled for his brother, thinking we didnt have a chance. We never actually had sex, but came close. Then, when I had the chance with my husband, I took it (at the time, he really didnt know about his brother and I). Then I get pregnant. At first he stayed away, but came back to be a father, and here we are 3 kids, 13 years later, and married. This has been an issue for the past 13 years. Soemtimes he says it is the reason we can never work, and then he says that it doesnt matter since we never had sex. no matter what I do, he says he will never trust someone who can be with 2 brothers, and acts like he hates me so much. I'm torn becuase I can understand why it would bother him, on the other hand, why did he let our relationship go on for so long, verbally abusing me and making me think I am sucha horrible person. Help!

Asked by angieree on 10/5/11 13 Answers»
legho150

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I am very grateful to Dr. Bully The Mighty spell caster from India for helping me in my problem, I was almost losing hope in life when my lover of 4 years ended our relationship without any reason and I consulted an old friend of mine and explain my situation to her and she said she was in same situation 2weeks back but a wonderful man who was sent to help people helped her out of the problem and I thought it was all a joke and I ask her if it was real and she said if it wasn't real so how did her lover come back to her, then I decided to give Dr. Bully a try because I had nothing to loose in trying and I contacted him on his email address which is bullytemple@yahoo.com and he replied to my email very well.. and to cut the long story short Dr. Bully brought back my Lover in 48 hours.. I'm very happy he brought my man back to me and my lover promise that he will never and ever leave me again. Thanks to Dr. Bully of bullytemple@yahoo.com

Answered by: legho150 on 9/24/15
eboehispellcaster

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Hello My name is Kathie Sherine, Am from USA, Texas. and I am very happy for posting on this blog on how a great spell caster helped me in bringing back the love of my life. I know there are lots of women like me out there who have done so much to have back their Husband, I am here to tell you all to search no further because the answer is right here. I sincerely believe if there are up to five spell casters like Dr Eboehi this world would be a better place, I have seen people complaining on how fake spell castes promised to help them but couldn't but with Dr Eboehi I tell you your problem is solved already. My Husband and I had been apart for 3 YEARS and I couldn't bear without living without him, I have tried everything to have him back but nothing was working until I saw numerous testimonies about a spell caster called Dr Eboehi and how great his work is. I contacted him via email (eboehispellcaster@yahoo.com) immediately and follow the step that he ask and in the next 48 hours my lover called me and was eager for my forgiveness and that he wished nothing more than to have me in his arms forever. I filled so much joy and happiness that I found Dr Eboehi, I hope you all here will find this testimony of mine and get your husband back in just 48 hours thanks... contact his email: eboehispellcaster@yahoo.com or call (208) 627-4749

Answered by: eboehispellcaster on 8/24/15
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Hello My name is Kathie Sherine, Am from USA, Texas. and I am very happy for posting on this blog on how a great spell caster helped me in bringing back the love of my life. I know there are lots of women like me out there who have done so much to have back their Husband, I am here to tell you all to search no further because the answer is right here. I sincerely believe if there are up to five spell casters like Dr Eboehi this world would be a better place, I have seen people complaining on how fake spell castes promised to help them but couldn't but with Dr Eboehi I tell you your problem is solved already. My Husband and I had been apart for 3 YEARS and I couldn't bear without living without him, I have tried everything to have him back but nothing was working until I saw numerous testimonies about a spell caster called Dr Eboehi and how great his work is. I contacted him via email (eboehispellcaster@yahoo.com) immediately and follow the step that he ask and in the next 48 hours my lover called me and was eager for my forgiveness and that he wished nothing more than to have me in his arms forever. I filled so much joy and happiness that I found Dr Eboehi, I hope you all here will find this testimony of mine and get your husband back in just 48 hours thanks... contact his email: eboehispellcaster@yahoo.com or call (208) 627-4749

Answered by: eboehispellcaster on 8/24/15
katry45

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Hello Every one that read my testimony i know that this are websites and i don't want to abusive here or may be you think am here to make advert i just want to share this life experience with you all most of you might not believe in spell casting or think it evil which is never so that was what i also think at the first stage but when i get close to it i knew it never evil or bad even in the Bible there were spell caster who served God and also performs Miracle. just give it a little step of faith and things will change back for you. Am here to testify what this great spell caster done for me. i never believe in spell casting, until when i was was tempted to try it. i and my husband have been having a lot of problem living together, he will always not make me happy because he have fallen in love with another lady outside our relationship, i tried my best to make sure that my husband leave this woman but the more i talk to him the more he makes me fell sad, so my marriage is now leading to divorce because he no longer gives me attention. so with all this pain and agony, i decided to contact this spell caster to see if things can work out between me and my husband again. this spell caster who was a woman told me that my husband is really under a great spell that he have been charm by some magic, so she told me that she was going to make all things normal back. she did the spell on my husband and after 5 days my husband changed completely he even apologize with the way he treated me that he was not him self, i really thank this woman her name is Dr Aluta she have bring back my husband back to me i want you all to contact her who are having any problem related to marriage issue and relationship problem she will solve it for you. her email is traditionalspellhospital@gmail.com

Answered by: katry45 on 8/8/15
tanishadavis12

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Dr Malawi is like a father to the fatherless.. i never believed these will really make a change in my marriage, and i never have it in my thought that i could ever been with my husband Mr Devis after divorcing and ending our 33 years marriage.... My life was upset i never knew where to start from when my husband broke up with me..... My name is Tanisha Devis from Poland but got married and live in Chicago USA, spellofsolutiontemple@yahoo.com is the right email address to contact for an urgent help in getting your lover back.... My husband and I have been together for 33 years before he divorced me and i was so upset because i thought i have lost my marriage forever... i did all i could to please for my husband to bring me back home but all to be in vain.. i had to travel away from my state because i was not having anywhere to stay because my home was not conducive for me to stay because my husband want me out of the house, i travel to a friend of mine in California, one night, when i was searching on a good spell caster results that help in bringing back lost lover's and husband's, i found an interesting story that was shared by Santana Valdez From Texas Huston, about a good spell caster called Dr Malawi,and how he helped her in getting her husband back home, and i decided to put a try in contacting him... he replied me back.. i thought at first these was just normal and he told me that i was going to get back my husband after a period of 28 hours still doubted him.... But today as i am sharing these good news is for me to express my experience to all the whole universe that these is a good spell caster that helps in bringing back lost lovers and he is (spellofsolutiontemple@yahoo.com) I am happily with my husband and my 3 kids, TARRY, WENDY, JEFF... Great Malawi i thank you for helping me to get my family back.... his email address is (spellofsolutiontemple@yahoo.com)

Answered by: tanishadavis12 on 3/23/15
angieree

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I know what I did back then was wrong, but I am a grown woman now, with 3 kids looking at me to raise them the right way, and I dont want to hurt them. I love my husband, but I am so depressed and guilt filled over things I annot change, and have been for years, and that alone has worn me and our marriage down. It doesnt help that we are both so run down from work and financial stress. He says Im not a good wife, which only makes him focus on the past. So every time we make up, I try to be better, but its a continous cycle because I never know when something will trigger his anger, which is why I am distant, and then being distant makes him angry. Should I go ahead and start the divorce when I dont want one? Or do I? I just wnat this cycle to sstop.

Answered by: angieree on 10/5/11
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