I have since found out since our divorce, that he was cheating on me and is now continuing to see her. He lied to me about everything. I fell for it Hook, line and sinker! So I signed the divorce papers for a non contested divorce. He would not let me reveal any of our assests except our vehicles. So I get nothing except $3000 and the furniture. He gets the 401, bonuses, $15-20 thousand dollars worth of tools. And we own 5 horses, but they are in both of our names. I dont believe anything he tells me anymore. I went into his e-mail and saw pictures of him kissing and holding hands with a girl, only 5 years older than our oldest son. I loved him so much, even after the divorce was final, until I saw the pictures. He took these pics only 2 days after our divorce was final! But he didnt even know it was final yet. I found out when I called the clerk of courts to find out if there was anythi8ng I could do, since I found out he lied to me. Now I want to get an attorney and reopen our case, and make him hurt as much as he has hurt me.