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ratula8
Answer:Move on, it is hard but you have to. You say you split five years ago but he keeps coming back. Plus he has a new girlfriend who is pregnant, this is...
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Brenda Della Casa
Answer:Dear TashaMC911, I am so very sorry you are going through what is no doubt a painful and emotionally turbulent experience. Cheating is an vicious...
oldgold
Answer:The school referred my son to therapy when he was in first grade, his mother left when he was 4 1/2. The psychiatrist was a young fellow in his residency...
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peaceful1
Answer:you know jesus says come unto him all that is heavy laden and burden and i'll give you rest. sometimes we can do all we can for a person or a marriage...
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Lisa0368
Answer:I know in my case it took me five years to overcome my sense of loss - it is just like losing a loved one to death. Sometimes finding another person...
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carefree
Answer:yes, My ex went in an snow jobed the therapist, my friends told me to go to a christian counselor I thought that it would make a difference since...
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Kacey6681
Answer:I told my daughter right away. Even though she is only 4, I felt it was the right thing to do since she was asking about her dad after only 2 days...
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