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Question:husband left for younger women need advice

hi need to talk to some one my husband left me after 18 yrs
for a younger women she is 24. im 49 hes 41 we have 3 beautiful girls 15,11,11 is it over or what im up and down with moods need advice pls.

Asked by busy49 on 10/22/08 1 Answer»


Hi Busy49. I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through this. I think you answered you question in your post. If your husband left you, you should probably work on accepting that it's over. I have no idea what kind of conversation you've had with your husband, but if it seems like your husband is not willing to work on things, then you need to take care of yourself.

Have you tried talking to friends or family members about this?

Answered by: LMAYO9 on 10/24/08
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