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runnindownadream

Question:There are only the pursued, the pursuing, the busy and the tired."

When it comes to finding romance, which one are you?

F. Scott Fitzgerald gave us that great quote from The Great Gatsby and it's always stuck with me. I think I fall under the pursuing and I was curious about everyone else.

Asked by runnindownadream on 10/29/08 3 Answers»
NicoO2000

Answer:

I think I'm definitely in the persuing category right now. Aren't guys always the ones doing the chasing? I think I've only ever had one girl come after me.

Answered by: NicoO2000 on 11/5/08
runnindownadream

Answer:

ha, at least I think it was from the Great Gatsby!

Answered by: runnindownadream on 11/3/08
aliciak

Answer:

Wow I don't remember that quote! And I've read the book 3 times! Hmm...I feel like I am in 3 of the 4 categories above. Can you guess which? ;)

Answered by: aliciak on 11/1/08
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