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Keep it Private

Want to show your sweetie how much you care? Forget about making one big, impressive public declaration, and concentrate on small, meaningful private gestures. Flashy, grand moves aren’t really for your loved one—they’re to show your family and friends how great you are. As the AmericanChronicle says, old-fashioned romance is all about the one you love. You may believe that kind of romance is dead because you don’t see it everyday. But you don’t see it because it’s where it belongs and where it counts the most—in private.

Do you believe the best romantic gestures are those made in private?

Posted: 3/10/08