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Use Your Head...The Other One

Use Your Head...The Other One

Recently, a blog on Creative Loafing caught my attention. The author, Mustang Sally, had a friend who had decided to give online dating a try. Hey, who hasn’t? Especially in today’s tough times, online dating sites are experiencing a boom.

Anyhow, rather than try the big-name online dating sites or even small, niche dating sites, Sally’s friend opted to give Craigslist a try because it’s free. Long story short, boy meets girl online, talks with her via email for a bit, and upon their first date, brings her back to his apartment for a one-night stand. The next day when he comes home from work, the guy walks into a busted apartment that’s been cleaned out. Fortunately, he had renter’s insurance.

This tale was eerily similar to a story from one of my guy friends. He met a girl at a party and brought her back to his apartment for a one-night stand. At some point in the night, she left a window open in another room, and the following Monday my friend came home to the same scenario.

Oh, boys.

These stories illustrate the importance of using common sense whether you’re online dating or dating in the real world. If the mood strikes when you’re with someone you just met, for the love of your computer and flat-screen TV, don’t bring them back to your apartment! Go to a cheap motel, because really, does anyone use a cheap, dirty motel for anything but sex?  

What lessons have you (or your friends) learned from dating in the real world or online?

—Laura Lee Bloor

Posted: 1/6/09
mitchelltra

My husband and I have been married for about 7 yrs now. We were happily married with two kids, a boy and a girl. 3 months ago, I started to notice some strange behavior from him and a few weeks later I found out that my husband is seeing someone else. He started coming home late from work, he hardly care about me or the kids anymore, Sometimes he goes out and doesn’t even come back home for about 2-3 days. I did all I could to rectify this problem but all to no avail. i confronted him he beat me up and send me out of the house i went to my parents house and stayd with them for 5 moth without hearing from my husband I became very worried and needed help. As I was browsing through the internet one day, I came across a website that suggested that lord abu can help solve marital problems, restore broken relationships and so on. So, I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and and told him my problems and he told me what to do and i did it and he did a spell for me. 2 days later, my husband came to me and apologized for the wrongs he did and promise never to do it again. Ever since then, everything has returned back to normal. I and my family are living together happily again.. All thanks to lord Abu. If you have any problem contact him and i guarantee you that he will help you. He will not disappoint you.Email him at: lordabutemple@yahoo.com or website: Link

mitchelltra

My husband and I have been married for about 7 yrs now. We were happily married with two kids, a boy and a girl. 3 months ago, I started to notice some strange behavior from him and a few weeks later I found out that my husband is seeing someone else. He started coming home late from work, he hardly care about me or the kids anymore, Sometimes he goes out and doesn’t even come back home for about 2-3 days. I did all I could to rectify this problem but all to no avail. i confronted him he beat me up and send me out of the house i went to my parents house and stayd with them for 5 moth without hearing from my husband I became very worried and needed help. As I was browsing through the internet one day, I came across a website that suggested that lord abu can help solve marital problems, restore broken relationships and so on. So, I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and and told him my problems and he told me what to do and i did it and he did a spell for me. 2 days later, my husband came to me and apologized for the wrongs he did and promise never to do it again. Ever since then, everything has returned back to normal. I and my family are living together happily again.. All thanks to lord Abu. If you have any problem contact him and i guarantee you that he will help you. He will not disappoint you.Email him at: lordabutemple@yahoo.com or website: Link

mitchelltra

My husband and I have been married for about 7 yrs now. We were happily married with two kids, a boy and a girl. 3 months ago, I started to notice some strange behavior from him and a few weeks later I found out that my husband is seeing someone else. He started coming home late from work, he hardly care about me or the kids anymore, Sometimes he goes out and doesn’t even come back home for about 2-3 days. I did all I could to rectify this problem but all to no avail. i confronted him he beat me up and send me out of the house i went to my parents house and stayd with them for 5 moth without hearing from my husband I became very worried and needed help. As I was browsing through the internet one day, I came across a website that suggested that lord abu can help solve marital problems, restore broken relationships and so on. So, I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and and told him my problems and he told me what to do and i did it and he did a spell for me. 2 days later, my husband came to me and apologized for the wrongs he did and promise never to do it again. Ever since then, everything has returned back to normal. I and my family are living together happily again.. All thanks to lord Abu. If you have any problem contact him and i guarantee you that he will help you. He will not disappoint you.Email him at: lordabutemple@yahoo.com or website: Link

JERRYMILLER

Get your ex lover back between 18 hours urgently{ covenantsolutiontemple@gmail.com}.
My name is Mary Lane, today has being the most happiest day of my life after 1 year of sadness and sorrow without being with the one i love. My husband left the house without saying good bye to me because i accused of him for seeing some one else, he left the house with out 2 kids i was hurt and devastated and really needed him back though he cheated in me, i tried all my possible best to make sure to make him come back i tried pleading with his mom {mama lousa} but it never seems to work out well it was like am doing everything in vain. One day a friend of mine on face book posted a comment on facebook on her she got her husband back when he left her and he droped an email of the man that helped her it was Dr Ewan of covenantsolutiontemple@gmail.com, but all thanks to Dr Ewan for coming to change all my worries and sadness to Joy. Then i decided not to waste time i contacted him he told me not to worry that my husband will come back to e in the next 24 hours i believed Dr Ewan so much because i believe he can't fail me and i sent him all my details. Truly Dr Ewan never failed me,my husband who left me for two months came back to me in the next 19 hours . My husband and i have been living happily with our kids since this spell caster reunited us together with his love spells. Thank you so so so much Dr Ewan for your powerful spells. expressions are not sufficient to say thank you. here is his email address covenantsolutiontemple@gmail.com or check out his website Link call him or add him on watsapp +2349057353987. Thank you very much Dr i will appreciate you forever.

NatashaHaye

Get your Ex back right now no matter how hopeless your situation seems!! my husband back today and i am so excited sharing my testimony with everyone here. I am Natasha Hayes by name and i reside here in United Kingdom. I'm happily married to a lovely and caring husband ,with two kids.A very big problem occurred in my family seven months ago,between me and my husband .so terrible that he took the case to court for a divorce.he said that he never wanted to stay with me again,and that he didn't love me anymore.So he packed out of the house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get him back,after much begging,but all to no avail.and he confirmed it that he has made his decision,and he never wanted to see me again. So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my husband .So i explained every thing to him,so he told me that the only way i can get my husband back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for him too.So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow his advice. Then he gave me the email address of the spell caster whom he visited.{Unityspelltemple@gmail.com}. So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address he gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my husband back the next day.What an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me,and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my husband who didn't call me for the past{7}months,gave me a call to inform me that he was coming back.So Amazing!! So that was how he came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and he apologized for his mistake,and for the pain he caused me and my children. Then from that day,our marriage was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster Dr Unity. So, i will advice you out there, if you have any problem contact Dr Unity and i guarantee you that he will help you and you will be the next to share your testimony to every one in the world!!. Email him at: Unityspelltemple@gmail.com or call him on: +2348072370762.

WendyBaron

Hi everyone, I am so excited to share this with you all, about this powerfully and genuine spell caster who save my marriage and brought my husband back to me today. I am Natasha Hayes by name and i reside here in London, United Kingdom. I'm happily married to a lovely and caring husband ,with two kids.A very big problem occurred in my family seven months ago,between me and my husband .so terrible that he took the case to court for a divorce.he said that he never wanted to stay with me again,and that he didn't love me anymore.So he packed out of the house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get him back,after much begging,but all to no avail.and he confirmed it that he has made his decision,and he never wanted to see me again. So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my husband .So i explained every thing to him,so he told me that the only way i can get my husband back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for him too.So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow his advice. Then he gave me the email address of the spell caster whom he visited.{Unityspelltemple@gmail.com}. So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address he gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my husband back the next day.What an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me,and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my husband who didn't call me for the past{7}months,gave me a call to inform me that he was coming back.So Amazing!! So that was how he came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and he apologized for his mistake,and for the pain he caused me and my children. Then from that day,our marriage was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster Dr Unity. So, i will advice you out there, if you have any problem contact Dr Unity and i guarantee you that he will help you and you will be the next to share your testimony to every one in the world!!. Email him at: Unityspelltemple@gmail.com or call him on +2348072370762 and you can also visit his website for more details: Link. thanks to Dr Unity please share this with your friends..

ColbyKatlin

( 48hourslovespell4ever22@gmail.com )

I want to use this medium to tell the world about Doctor HEART who helped me in getting my lover back with his powerful love spell, my ex and i where having misunderstanding which led to our breakup though i went to beg her several times to please forgive and accept me back because i know i offended her but each time i went i always feel more deeply in pain and agony because she always walk out on me and would not want to listen to what i have to tell but on i faithful day as i was browsing i came arose a testimony of a woman whose problem was more than mine and yet Doctor HEART helped her with his spell so i was happy and also contacted Doctor HEART for help via email and then told him my story but the only thing he said was that i will wipe you tear with my spell so lucky for me everything want well just as he promised and right now i have got my fiance back and we are both living happily. there is nothing Doctor HEART can not do with is spell and just as promise my self i will keep testifying on the internet of how Doctor HEART helped me.Are your problem greater that mine or less i give you 100% guarantee that Doctor HEART will put an end to it with his powerful spell, contact Doctor HEART for help Via email 48hourslovespell4ever22@gmail.com


*I. BRING BACK LOST LOVERS IN 4DAYS.

*2. SPELL TO WIN SOMEONE HEART TO YOUR SELF

*3. REMOTE CONTROL OVER LOVERS.

*4. BREAKING OF GENERATION COURSE.

*5. GETTING OF JOB.

ANd many more, he is a supernatural man. He did a very surprising job for me. contact Doctor HEART for help Via email 48hourslovespell4ever22@gmail.com

WendyBaron

I was hurt and heart broken by my husband,but i am so happy to have my husband back in my life again.!My name Wendy Baron, i live in Manchester, United Kingdom. A very big problem occurred in my marriage seven months ago, between me and my husband . so terrible that he took the case to court for a divorce. he said that he never wanted to stay with me again,and that he didn't love me anymore.So he packed out of the house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get him back,after much begging,but all to no avail.and he confirmed it that he has made his decision,and he never wanted to see me again. So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my husband .So i explained every thing to him,so he told me that the only way i can get my husband back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for him too.So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow his advice. Then he gave me the email address of the spell caster whom he visited. TEMPLEOFLOVEANDPROSPERITY@GMAIL.COM. So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address he gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my husband back the next day. What an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me, and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my husband who didn't call me for the past 7 months, gave me a call to inform me that he was coming back. So Amazing!! So that was how he came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and he apologized for his mistake,and for the pain he caused me and my children. Then from that day,our relationship was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster. So, i will advice you out there if you have any problem contact Dr Frank Ojo, i give you 100% guarantee that he will help you.. Email him at: Templeofloveandprosperity@gmail.com ,or visit his Web site to know more about him: Link .

VAL3214

Thank you Dr.Agbazara for helping me to unite my relationship just within the period of 48 hours. I can still remember those period when i was having problems with my lover but today through the help of Dr.Agbazara i am having joy in my relationship. And if you are having problems in your relationship the right place to get it solved is at: agbazara@gmail.com OR you can give him a call on +2348104102662. By his help all your problems will be solved within 48 hours

VAL

CANADA

WilliamFrank1

GREETING....... I must say Dr. Obasi spell really worked and I am proud to testify also. I saw a post on how a lady got her ex boyfriend back through the help of Dr. Obasi spell and I decided to try him because my marriage was crashing and my wife was asking for a divorce. Dr. Obasi helped me and my marriage is now perfect just as he promised my wife now treats me like a prince even when she had told me before he doesn't love me anymore. well, I can not say much but if you are passing through difficulties in your relationship or marriage, contact Dr. Obasi today via obasispelltemple@gmail.com

thankslove

This Story is true life story do not pass the story without reading it,my name is Michael Thomas,I live in UK,i am here to share a wonderful testimony how this great man name dr Ogogodu helped me in get back my lover who broke up with me,she told me that she will never in her life date me again that she hate me and she was telling me all this in the present of my friend and family because that day was my birthday,i try to talk to her that she should forget about what happen she was still saying the same thing,so for the past four month we did not talk to each other again but we do see each on the way to work,i did not know that she was dating some one else,a friend of my who told me that she was dating some one told me that if i want to get her back that he can help me get her back,i tough he was joking because is ex girlfriend who he really love broke up with him three year ago and now she is back i told him that my lover can not come back because i never new that some thing like spell caster exist in this world so he told me that he is going to call some great who helped him in getting back is exlover can also help me so he call Dr Ogogodu and told him my problem when he told my friend to give me the phone i was afraid to talk to him he just told me on phone that my lover is under a spell and told me many thing about me and my family i was surprise he told me that if i am ready to cast the spell i should tell him i told him yes he told me to get some items which i did,do you know the goodnews my lover is back to me and now i am so happy again all thanks to Dr Ogogodu.

Contact of Dr Ogogodu: email Ogogodutempleofsolution@gmail.com call him +2348078999655
You can also call me with my private cell number:+447024093944 or email me michael.thomas109@yahoo.com for more information about this great man he can help you with any problem

thankslove

My Name is Christopher am from canada, am here to share this wonderful testimony for what Dr ogogodu has done for me and my family,i have been in a relationship with my lover for more than 3 years until she told me she is no longer interested in this relationship it was like i was dreaming because i never expected it from her because we both where really in love she made me to realise that true love exist,i tried my possible best to get her back but i never found a solution until this Godsent came called Dr ogogodu i got to know about Dr ogogodu when i was listen to the radio when people where giving testimonies on how Dr ogogodu has helped them in bring back there lover within 18 ,24 hours i was so happy that this was my hour of solution i got Dr ogogodu contact i contacted him and told him he laughed and said i should not worry that he assures me that within 18 hours will have my lover back, really as the 18 hours was completed was a call from my lover begging me that she never knew what came over her i was so happy and i accepted her back and i promise to share this testimonies as well because people might not have time to listen to the radio so i had to try and drop this on the internet where people can simple read this my good news am so happy today that my lover laura is back with the help of Dr ogogodu you can contact Dr ogogodu on ogogodutempleofsolution@gmail.com or cell number +2348078999655

aliciak

Haha, "go to a cheap motel." I've never internet-dated, but with any type of dating, you have to go with your gut...hopefully it's a smart gut! I tend to have good intuition and would hope that I could sniff out something fishy. "hope"