I 'M WITH MY BOYFREIND FOR ABOUT 14 YEARS.ONE QUESTION IS: 1: HE HAS A NEPHEW IS ALWAYS IN OUR LIFE. BUT DONT GET ME WRONG.I DON'T CARE SOMETIMES.BUT I THINK WE CAN BE TOGETHER OUR SELF.SO HE GETS MAD WHEN I SAYS SOMETHING TO HIM.WHY CANT WE BE BY OURSELF THAN HIM WITH US. 2 QUESTION: HE ALWAYS BUYING STUFF FOR HIS FAMILY,(LIKE HE BUYS EVERY SUNDAY COFFEE AND DONUTS AND OTHER STUFF.AND SOMETIMES HE EVEN BUYS FOOD TOO.HE COMES FROM A BIG FAMILY 12 BROTHER AND SISTER. AND THEY ARE ALL IN THE AREA.AND HALF OF THEM DON'T WORK TO. WHEN HE WAS YOUNGER THEY DIDNT HAVE IT SO I THINK MAYBE THIS IS WHY HE DOES IT.)LIKE HE HAS TO BUY HIS RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM.BUT THEN HE HAS BILLS HE SHOULD PAY. NOT TO BUY EVER SUNDAY. 3 THING: WE DONT TALK HAS MUCH HAS WE USE TO.I ASK HIM WHY,HE SAYS I ASK STUPID QUESTION.LIKE I ASK HIM WHO SINGS THIS SONG ON THE RADIO.OR SOMETHING ELSE. LIKE WE GO T FRIND HOUSE OR TO A PARTY OR CONCERT.HE SAYS HE DONT HAVE A GOOD TIME WITH ME ANY MORE.I GO AND HAVE A GOOD TIME .AND SOME TIME HIS NEPHEW IS THEIR TOO. 5 : AND NOW WE HAVE SEX MAYBE EVERY 2 WEEKS IS THAT REAL? SO I ASK HIM IF HE HAS SOME ELSE HE SAID NO.HE SAY HOW COULD I HAVE ONE I WORK ALL THE TIME. 6 THING: THE ONE TIME I CHECK IS CELL PHONE THEIR WAS ANOTHER NUMBER ON IT SO I CALL IT. A GIRL ANSWER SHE SAID WHO IS THISAND I SAID YOU DONT HAVE TO KNOW WHO IT IS . AND I DIDNT TELL HER WHO I WAS. SO THE NEXT DAY HE WENT TO WORK SHE ASK THE GUYS THAT LIVE OUT HERE THE NAME OF TOWN AND PHONE #IF ANY ONE NEW IT.PLUS MY FRIEND WHO IS THIS NUMBER?SO HE SAID ITS MY GIRLFREIND. AND HE TOLD HER I WAS JUST BE NOSEIE.WAS I RIGHT OR WRONG DOING THAT? 7 THING: AND NOW WE ARE FIGHTING AGAIN . HE GETS IN THIS MOOD AND NOT TALK TO ME. IS THIS RIGHT?SO WHAT SHOULD I DO? I TRY TO TALK TO HIM.AND HE WON'T OR HE WILL GO SOMEWHER. THEN COME BACK AND GO AGAIN.HE DOES COME BACK HOME WHEN HE IS READY BED. 8: AND WE DO NOT SLEEP IN THE SAME BED. PLUS WE HAVE 4 DOGS . 2 WITH ME AND 2 WITH HIM . 2 DOGS DON'T GET ALONG. 9 THING: HE SHOWS MORE LOVE TO THE DOG THAN ME.SOMETIMES I SAY MAYBE I SHOULD BE A DOG AND BARK.MAYBE YOU WILL PET ME. THATS HOW I FEEL. 10 THING: HE STILL KISS ME WHEN HE GOES TO WORK AND TO BED. BUT NOW HES MAD THAT ME HE WONT. 11 THING : I WAS MARRY ALREADY ,MAYBE ITS ME. I MUST DO SOMETHING WRONG. AND THATS WHY I ASK SO MANY QUESTIONS WHEN WE FIGHT. ONE TIME WE EVER GOT MAD AT EACH OTHER. ALSO I AM THE ONE THATS ALWAYS SAYING I'M SORRY OR I'M ALWAYS CRYING. AND HE FORGETS ALL THE THINGS I DID FOR HIM. I DID ALOT .I DO LOVE HIM,BUT I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO ANYMORE ! NEED A FRIEND TO TALK TO . shadow570@peoplepc.com)