Do not focus on what you don't want.
Once you find your passion; live your dream. Visualize yourself leading the lifestyle you want every morning and every night before you drift to sleep. We create the life we live by our intentions. Once an individual focuses on the intended life/lifestyle they desire, the universe will guide you to it. You must first set a goal that is bigger than what you are currently doing, next stimulate your mind with vision tools such as a vision board which will allow you to see your goal(s), believe you deserve this life then believe you have everything you need to begin living your dream. Once you are fully focused on your goal, do not forget to place good vibrations in the universe by having a "gratitude attitude" this means being thankful for what you have so the "Law of Attraction" bring you more of what you are thankful for.