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Keep Yourself Grounded

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Surely you’ve heard the term “Bridezilla.” If you’re a bride-to-be, it’s likely that someone has already jokingly called you one in the wedding planning process. Nobody wants to be likened to an ugly, green monster, but it is fairly natural to see how planning a wedding can make you lose your grip on reality. 

The best way to stay grounded in the wedding planning process is to surround yourself with good friends who can pull you back down to the planet. And the people you’ll talk to the most in the upcoming months is your wedding party. Spend some time today considering who’ll form this circle of support for you.

Choose friends and family you can trust to tell you when you’re being dramatic and who are flexible enough to support you as you transition from single person to married person. And don’t forget to thank them for their help every step of the way.

If you're looking for an outsider's perspective, don't forget to visit the wedding planning community at First30Days.

DID YOU KNOW?
23 million bridesmaids and groomsmen are chosen each year, but don't feel pressured into picking a 20 person wedding party. As with most things in life, quality is always more important than quantity.

Posted: 3/20/10