Planning a Wedding

I wouldn't say that I didn't care, but I didn't make it the primary focus of my life. It's nice to have a goal post out there, but "scoring a point" was not ordering fries with my cheese burger.

I've had friends who didn't care if they were in good shape or not. The ones who were not going to the gym regularly prior to being engaged, eventually slipped back into their regular routine and when they looked back at pictures from the special day, were a little disappointed that they had gained the weight back, or didn't have time for the gym now.
Those who went to the gym anyway, just picked up the pace a little and maybe didn't eat that cookie at 3pm.
Personally, I go to the gym regularly and eat pretty healthy, but I definitely don't love my arms, so maybe I'll just be sure to pick up some extra weights.