peaceful1

I agree with you my husband who wants the divorce he is very sensitive but he never would let me in he felt that i didn't need to know. he went to other women even cheated on me three times and i still kept forgiving him hoping that the marriage will get better.so how do you think women are suppose to feel when you keep getting pushed away and the only time the men notice you is when you get youself in a jam and the wife have to get you out. women do get tired.

I'm 48yrs old and was just hit with the I want a divorce he did not explain i don't even know why it really knocked me off my feet. here it is day 3 and i find myself crying on and off during the day and waking up at nite. what you need is a support team right now not a long distance relationship because they also can be very painful. i found a support team and i'm working on feeling and doing better for myself, try that first and then when you start feeling better and realize that you can do better then think and just think about a relationship. it's early in my divorce preceedings but my support team shows me that god is on my side and you don't need to stress yourself. oh crying is good for you.

curious, the flesh tells us to things without thinklng because we are hurting at that time and we are bitter. but , guess what , we must for-give if we don't we can't see anything clear until we do. with forgiveness your bitter will get better and you will feel so much better with-in yourself you will know just how to handle this and feel good about it. only god can fight our battles every time we do it ourselves we mess-up. remember your bitterness today will make your tomorrow better. now all that said, when you get this divorce make sure your heart and mind is clear. peace

countrygirl it's me again(peachful1) also try the employment office they really should be able to help and you can even do ithis on-line. peaceful1.

hi countrygirl how are you, i'm called peaceful1 maybe this might help you. if you can try going to a library and talk with a lirarian they have all kinds of listing posted on the wall for all sorts of stuff and also try talking to someone who works for the county there are all types of programs setup for low income families and most of them are free. good luck and be bless.

you know jesus says come unto him all that is heavy laden and burden and i'll give you rest. sometimes we can do all we can for a person or a marriage or whatever, and it seems like it is never enough. and when someone or something disrupt our lives we start blaming ourselves, but when that something disrputs it is because it has no peace within itself and the closes thing to it feel the burden because it can not find peace within itself. it does not matter how long it was if it was for 25 mins.(laugh) if there is no love for one self how could you really love someone esle. jesus is the only one that has a answer for you, just listen when he speaks because he does talk to us. you will know what to do then in the mea while don't blame youself. peaceful1