esthechica

Take some time to be angry, cry, and mourn the loss of your marriage. Don't blame yourself!! It's too easy to do that and ask "What if??" endlessly. Get a journal and write him letters expressing EVERYTHING. Then get online and find some groups to join - whatever your interests. The things you gave up or wanted to do but never did because you were dedicated to him. Pick one or two and make yourself go. If it's not what you want, find another group, but the important thing is go, smile, say hello and introduce yourself. Make a list and do what you want for YOU. This will give you new things and people to focus on and get you out of your head, and finding the things that will make you happy. Good luck and I'm so sorry this happened to you, but you will make it, lots of us have survived divorce!!! All the best to you!