cactusgirl08

Research it on the internet.
brenda

Look to GOD for answers needed.
brenda

Start in one pile or section at a time. Also, you can
go to the dollar store and buy plastic containers with
lids on them. you can organize stuff and put them in
containers and store in closets. Give stufff away that
you don't want or need. Salvation Army is a good place
to unload. Hope this helps. Have a great day!
brenda

Good gracious, your plate is full! I hope you are taking
alot of slow deep breaths. How old is your mother?
I am sure she will adjust. Just knowing she will be close
to family, her loved ones, should be of solace for her,
providing you check in on her every two to three days or at least weekly.

I am sure your husband knows what his strengths are
and should help out where he can. Maybe he can
check in on your mother and take some of your children with him for a visit. To help maintain the family contact. You can't be everywhere all the time and you
can't do all things by yourself, or you will have a nervous breakdown! If you do one positive thing per
day, then you are doing what you yourself can do.

Your 19 year old needs to get real with her grades or
get a job. Your 15 year old needs counseling for her
anxiety, because it is a real problem. She diffinetely
doesn't need any stress in her life. She needs a calm
environment. She would probably enjoy painting, or
quilting or some relaxing, creative project.

We live in a world that is not safe for our daughters
to walk or go anywhere alone. So keep a good eye
on your young daughters. I watch Nancy Grace every
evening and it is sad to see the many young children and women that go missing and are murdered. Your
girls need you mostly. Once your daughters start
driving, tell them to always lock their car doors even
during the day time. Always think safety.

Be good to yourself. If you are happy, then everyone
else in your family will be happy too.
GOD Bless your wonderful family,
brenda

It depends on what you are capable of doing. It de-
pends on if you want to make a change in your life;
are you ready too. Do you need too?? Some people
take baby steps to reach their destination. Good luck.
brenda

REJECTION!

By doing what I am able to do just for today. Knowing
that it is for my best interest, or the best interest of
a loved one that may need me. For example, my
grandchild. There are alot of people suffering in this
world. And if we see a need around and we know we
can make a positive difference, then we should do
what a good, positive, honest person should do. I
think this is a common good that can make a difference
in our world.
brenda