Hmm I guess it would have to depend on your demographic and where you're coming from, because L.A. and esp. Malibu can seem like they're on a different...
I've been thinking and thinking about this, and I can't come up with one set answer. I guess I just love to switch things up. If I had my choice though...
Sounds like you've got a good old-fashioned crush! So, maybe you can go about acting on it in a good old fashioned way. Perhaps you can send her flowers...
Believe it or not, one of my biggest expenses has been coffee. Even the $1.90 cafe Americanos add up to about $10 a week. Now that I have my own coffeemaker...