I've read your answers and thank u so much for the advice. After reading your answers, talking to him, and talking to "HER", I've decided to just let...
Before I commented I went back and looked at your orignal question. And I have to say how very proud I am of you that you had the strength to do what...
I would talk through things first, figure out why he cheated (does he have a history of this?), before making a decision to get back together or not...