Adriana

Adriana

My boyfriend of 7 years broke up w/me & I'm having a hard time moving on...

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maryejj0564

Can he love me and still need a break from the relationship?

My boyfriend of 15 months told me he needs a break from our relationship. In this time, we only had 2-3 issues where we didn't agree and I wouldn't c
Adriana

I feel for you...And honestly from my experience, I believe the answer is no. Yes he can still care about you and love you in that way but the very fact that he wants a break is just he's way of letting you down easy and not hurting you as much by saying he's just completely done. I also believe it's a backup because he doesn't want to lose you completely in case he doesn't find someone else and he knows you'll be there. My ex said the same thing at first that he wants a break and then it turned into he wants to breakup and then that turned into a roller coaster ride for a few months of him saying he missed me one day and then the next wanting to stay broken up. It's been 7 months now and it all started from him saying he wanted a break & mind you we were together 7 years and he was just able to cut our relationship off(which I still don't understand how it was so easy for him)...he also has told me many of the things your guy has told you...like he hates that he's lost his best friend, talking to me makes his day better, still loves me, misses me and hopes to have a future with me but doesn't know what the future holds...I do believe there's a little percent that he'll run back to you because he might just realize that he truly loves you but in order for that to happen I believe you guys must cut all ties and since it is a small percent that that may actually happen I suggest skipping the emotional roller coaster and cut all ties from him now & truly go on relearning how to live life without him again, don't wait around...if he really love you, he will be back! Hope that helped a bit. Best wishes to you during this hard time.