How do you deal with good changes?
I am always having bad things happen to me and I am a single mother. well now good things are always happening to me but I make them turn bad cause that is what I am use to. How do I stop that and just relax and enjoy my new life with good things happen and going the right way?
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OneMomma I used to be the same way- If something wasn't wrong with my life I made it that way! It's hard to "not" have to deal with contraversy and drama when that's all you know. I had to actually stop myself and take a step back and remember that I could not always control things and not to take it personal. Now when I think I'm going to sabotage myself I have to take a step forward and think of all the things that used to go wrong and remember all the work it took me to make things right and how I didn't have enough time in my life for it anymore. I also think how lucky we are. We live in a world where things are wonderful if you stop and look at them. Life is good. Take a breath and always remember that.
Sometimes the answer is very simple: Start saying "Thank you." Very powerful words. Watch what happens.
Progress is impossible without change, and those who cannot change their minds, cannot change anything.- George Bernard Shaw