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abbie779

Question:I have been separated from my husband of 33 years. I am in pain and it hurts. How can I change?

I have been separated for one month now from my husband of 33 years. It is really painful. I do not know what will happen in the future but I do need to get away from this hurt and get on with my life. He says he wants to come back and he still loves me because I keep communicating with him. I have been told to not communicate and to let him lie in the bed he has made. This is hard because he was a part of me for so long. I just want to know what to do to help me to become a better person and if an when we do get back together I have changed for the better.
I am a career person and well educated but this separation has taken me down a path that is very painful and I can not pull out of it.
Thanks for your input.

Asked by abbie779 on 1/16/10 7 Answers»
katherine00

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After being in relationship with Wilson for seven years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that don't believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I meant a spell caster called Dr Zuma zuk and I email him, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email: spiritualherbalisthealing@gmail.com or call him +2349055637784 you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or anything. CONTACT HIM NOW FOR SOLUTION TO ALL YOUR PROBLEMS'

Answered by: katherine00 on 12/1/16
Shannon64

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,How I Got My Ex Husband Back...........

I am Shannon by name. Greetings to every one that is reading this testimony. I have been rejected by my husband after three(3) years of marriage just because another woman had a spell on him and he left me and the kid to suffer. one day when i was reading through the web, i saw a post on how this spell caster on this address Makospelltemple@yahoo.com , have help a woman to get back her husband and i gave him a reply to his address and he told me that a woman had a spell on my husband and he told me that he will help me and after 2 days that i will have my husband back. i believed him and today i am glad to let you all know that this spell caster have the power to bring lovers back. because i am now happy with my husband. Thanks for Dr.Mako. His email: Makospelltemple@yahoo.com OR. his phone number: +2348108737816.

Answered by: Shannon64 on 9/13/16
Shannon64

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How I Got My Ex Husband Back...........

I am Shannon by name. Greetings to every one that is reading this testimony. I have been rejected by my husband after three(3) years of marriage just because another woman had a spell on him and he left me and the kid to suffer. one day when i was reading through the web, i saw a post on how this spell caster on this address Makospelltemple@yahoo.com , have help a woman to get back her husband and i gave him a reply to his address and he told me that a woman had a spell on my husband and he told me that he will help me and after 2 days that i will have my husband back. i believed him and today i am glad to let you all know that this spell caster have the power to bring lovers back. because i am now happy with my husband. Thanks for Dr.Mako. His email: Makospelltemple@yahoo.com OR. his phone number: +2348108737816.

Answered by: Shannon64 on 9/13/16
irenecod5

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Dear Dr. Wakina via (dr.wakinalovetemple@gmail.com), my name is Irene Cody; I’m thanking you for the love spell, done on me and my boyfriend, thanks for your consideration when I was dyeing with an indecisive spirit. You helped me get together with the man I have been loving for years.
“I and my lover have been friends for years and lovers several times, but I wanted more, because I never knew if he had feelings for me or if he loves me more than I do, until I started dating our friend, I later realized that, I was making a huge mistake, I love him dearly and I wouldn’t do anything to hurt him, and I knew right inside of me, that he loves me, but I wanted him to prove it.
He told me and proved to me exactly what I wanted, after he found out that I am going out with our friend, but he continued with his ex in a relationship that is ending (that relationship of his was one of the reasons for me to seek another) because he thinks that I’m with another man.”
That’s the reason why am thanking Dr. Wakina, for the love spell that united us again, after 4 months without him, we are back now, stronger than ever because the love spell was cast according to his wish. Thank you Dr. Wakina and I will thank you more after our marriage. Contact him via dr.wakinalovetemple@gmail.com

Answered by: irenecod5 on 9/30/15
raymondjer5

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My wife said the first time she was caught making out with a co-worker was that “she was being pushed by the devil”. She fakes business vacations on several occasion just to spend private time alone with her co-worker. She plays her game so tight that I had to employ informant to always track every of her moves. I didn’t believe most of the results, but I have always been suspecting until when I was brought to witness her actions. It was so painful than I was expected. We had serious issues that almost lasted a year and she can’t stop seeing the guy. I thought of divorce, but it might affect our kids and I don’t know any other means to employ that will make her stop. I was recommended to search blogs for spell casters that can help, that’s when I fell in love with comments I read about Dr.Wakina on Link and some testimonies on Link before I was convinced enough to contact him via dr.wakinalovetemple@gmail.com I didn’t expect much from him, but his presence in my life gave me hope, he did his thing and cast the spell that united our spirit and soul, the spell changed our feelings and thoughts, she no longer have feelings for another man except me for months now, we thinks more about our future together with the kids and we called dr. wakina to thank him as a family, I was blessed and touched for what he is doing. I promised to share this testimony and his email to help save families who are having crisis. Contact him via dr.wakinalovetemple@gmail.com

Answered by: raymondjer5 on 8/15/15
gloryfred

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GOD BLESS THE DAY I CAN BE-LIVE THIS WHAT DR OGUMEN HAVE DO FOR MY LIFE

Hello my name is GLORY FRED from USA, My life is back!!! After 8 years of marriage, my husband left me and left me with our three kids. I felt like my life was about to end, and was falling apart. I contacted you and after I explained you my problem. In just 3 days, my husband came back to us and show me and my kids much love and apologize for all the pain he have bring to the family. We solaed our issues, and we are even happier than before you are the best spell caster Dr OGUMEN i really appreciate the love spell you castes for me to get the man back to my life i will keep sharing more testimonies to people about your good work Thank you once again at (ogumensolutioncenter@yahoo.com ). in case you are in any problem you can contact this man for help he is always there in his temple to help you solve your problem Contact Email is (ogumensolutioncenter@yahoo.com )

Answered by: gloryfred on 7/5/15
Jellybean22

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Hi. I too have been told by my husband of 27 years, that he needs to get away, and he should have divorced me 15 years ago. He moved out 2 weeks ago, and doesn't want me to know we're he lives. I feel devastated , hurt,. My friends and family have told me too leave him alone, he will want to come back.

I miss him and I still love him very much.

My journey now is to become strong, independent of that relationship . I want to become a person that can make my Own decisions. We often allow own partners to make decision, and resent them for not fulfilling our happiness .

Take this time to explore deep within, what would it take to make you smile?

It's not right that your partner gets to come and go as he pleases. Don't we all want to escape? Get strong change your look and style. Get busy with your own desires and goal.

Answered by: Jellybean22 on 5/14/13
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