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Question:Why do you feel that it is necessary for men to cheat? and why do we continually trust them?

Asked by SinCity on 8/12/08 10 Answers»
GoodGodlyGirl

Answer:

I don't feel that it's necessary for men to cheat because NOT ALL MEN cheat. The ones that cheat have issues within themselves, they are selfish and self-centered. It's much easier to tell someone that you don't want to continue in a relationship with them instead of hurting them by cheating (being unfaithful). Relationships require hard work constantly. WE ALL NEED TO BE HONEST with each other. Let's start practicing that and stop cheating--MEN and WOMEN alike!

Answered by: GoodGodlyGirl on 8/20/08
springshine

Answer:

I haven't read "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" but I do agree there's a difference between how men and women approach love, sex and fidelity. My guess is that with men it's more about ego, conquest ... competition.

I have male friends who say it's not above love as much as it's about feeding that need they have to have their ego stroked.

Of course, not all men respond like this.

Answered by: springshine on 8/18/08
LMAYO9

Answer:

I don't think ALL men cheat, it's just that the ones who create bad raps for the ones that don't. But I think women cheat just as much, you simply don't hear about it.

Of course, if your significant other has cheated on you, that's not cool and I'm sorry. But you have to remember that it's not necessarily EVERY man that cheats.

Answered by: LMAYO9 on 8/15/08
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