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Who Cares If It Turns Out Right?

Unless you're building a skyscraper or fixing a brain, there's room for error in your work. Sometimes, not forcing greatness/perfection leads to bigger and better ideas. So let go of whether a project is "right," and just let it be what it'll be.

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It Starts Before It Starts

Real intimacy can lead to the greatest sex imaginable. How is true intimacy achieved? Through the sharing of oneself. Being vulnerable for your lover is key. Talk openly and honestly, hold hands, embrace. Soon after, sparks will fly!

Shared by jeanfroner on 2/22/08

Wonderful sentiment. At our core we all want to be loved and needed.

Thanks for sharing that.

By VictoriaB
on 2/27/08 10:12 AM EST