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Licensed clinical psychologist and certified sex therapist.

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You’ve probably done a good bit of research as to how you can improve your sex life. Today is the day to actually do it.

Too often, people think and read about trying something out in the bedroom, but they never actually get around to doing it. Make tonight the night you experiment. Go home (with or without your partner) and go to town! Try out that sexual position you’ve been interested in, or read an erotic story to your mate. Either way, this is your day to try everything that you’ve been learning about.

If you want to watch an instructional or pornographic video, make sure your privacy is ensured so you don’t wind up getting “caught” by roomies, kids or other family members. If you have a specific request for your partner, just ask nicely and see what happens. Or bring out your book, web site or video and see if it arouses them as much as it has aroused you. Eventually you may want to go further and use sex toys or light S&M techniques. You never know what you or your partner might like until you try. If your interest requires a trip to an “adult entertainment” store, find the nearest one and go by on your evening commute. Open your mind today and see what thrills you!

Posted: 1/9/09
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