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Who Cares If It Turns Out Right?

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Unless you're building a skyscraper or fixing a brain, there's room for error in your work. Sometimes, not forcing greatness/perfection leads to bigger and better ideas. So let go of whether a project is "right," and just let it be what it'll be.
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I'm Too Sexy

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Make yourself over today into the sexy creature that you’re meant to be. Take special care in your daily routine to look your best. Whether you need to shave, style your hair or just pay closer attention to how you walk out the door, do it! You should look as hot as you feel; it will boost your confidence and help you focus on your physical needs.

If you’re feeling stale in your usual routine, go shopping or get a new haircut. Buy clothes that are flattering and make you feel attractive. So often we walk out the door in something we think we “should” wear, or we don’t think about it at all. If you’re not paying attention to your appearance, who will?

Remember back to when you first started dating or met your partner. Did you dress in the same pair of track pants that you wear around the house now? Probably not. When you look good, you feel good. And if you look good and feel good, you’ll inevitably feel sexy. Taking care of your physical appearance can give you control while making you feel sexy and confident.

Posted: 11/22/08
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