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Everyday Change

Who Cares If It Turns Out Right?

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Unless you're building a skyscraper or fixing a brain, there's room for error in your work. Sometimes, not forcing greatness/perfection leads to bigger and better ideas. So let go of whether a project is "right," and just let it be what it'll be.
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Flirty Fun

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Today, your assignment is to flirt. That’s right, throw a little head tilt someone’s way or smile at a stranger. If you have a partner, send him or her a sexy note or wink when you walk by. Maybe even throw in a comment about how your partner is looking hot lately. You’ve been gearing up and getting turned on, so now is the time to make sure the person you’re sexually interested in gets the hint.

Be sure you aren’t hitting anyone over the head with your desire. Flirting is subtle and a little mysterious. Flirting is not serious, it’s not grave and it’s not results-oriented. If good things come of your flirtatious moves, fantastic! But the goal today is to just let your sensual and happy thoughts out in small ways. Ideally, you’ll have a target for these actions but, if not, make the mailman’s day! See how you feel at the end of the day when you’ve put all of those positive vibes into the universe.

Have fun with your flirty self!

Posted: 11/22/08
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