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Question:i just want to ask a question my boyfriend and i was been living for a year ...He is not really attracted to me sexually we dont even have sex like 3months or sometimes we do it like twice a month so i got worried...then i found out that he is watching th

i just want to ask a question my boyfriend and i was been living for a year ...He is not really attracted to me sexually we dont even have sex like 3months or sometimes we do it like twice a month so i got worried...then i found out that he is watching those porn online and have different naked pictures of a woman and i realized he was just masturbating by himself for a long time everytime he watch those porn..he said it makes him hard watching those..im worried is that a normal thing because we are still young he is 36 and im 35 and a our sexually life is dead..what will we do to make it work??

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