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Caitlincc

Question:The other day I was extremely sexually frustrated and my boyfriend of 3 and a half years walked in on me taking care of myself, he got very angry and wouldn't talk to me for two days. What do I do?

And after he gets over being angry about what i did, we got ready to make love and I decide to tell him what I want him to do and he starts asking me if I think he is bad in bed because I want to change our "routine". What do I do about this? I can't win with him.

Asked by Caitlincc on 12/20/11 23 Answers»
WendyBaron

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I was hurt and heart broken by my husband,but i am so happy to have my husband back in my life again.!My name Wendy Baron, i live in Manchester, United Kingdom. A very big problem occurred in my marriage seven months ago, between me and my husband . so terrible that he took the case to court for a divorce. he said that he never wanted to stay with me again,and that he didn't love me anymore.So he packed out of the house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get him back,after much begging,but all to no avail.and he confirmed it that he has made his decision,and he never wanted to see me again. So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my husband .So i explained every thing to him,so he told me that the only way i can get my husband back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for him too.So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow his advice. Then he gave me the email address of the spell caster whom he visited. TEMPLEOFLOVEANDPROSPERITY@GMAIL.COM. So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address he gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my husband back the next day. What an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me, and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my husband who didn't call me for the past 7 months, gave me a call to inform me that he was coming back. So Amazing!! So that was how he came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and he apologized for his mistake,and for the pain he caused me and my children. Then from that day,our relationship was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster. So, i will advice you out there if you have any problem contact Dr Frank Ojo, i give you 100% guarantee that he will help you.. Email him at: Templeofloveandprosperity@gmail.com ,or visit his Web site to know more about him: Link .

Answered by: WendyBaron on 3/11/16
marah2448

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You need to tell him that you are not sexually satisfied. Please try to have an open mind. He may come defensive because now it’s his manhood. It’s better to say something and see what he is willing to do to please you more? If he does not take initiative to show improvement; you have to decide (think about this you are not married, so it is not much of challenge). You have the choice to leave or stay and be deprived.
Being in a relationship and no intimacy or sex is an unhealthy relationship or marriage and is dum to fail.
I am married (still newly weds) and it is sexless. It’s not that easy to bail vs. just having a boyfriend. Because of lack of sex in my marriage I am losing a connection and began to feel just like a friendship
Boys become men; remember most men still have the boy mentality that why women is more mature about different situation in life. You are going to have handle the situation (include God in your decision) You have right frame of mind that why you decide to seek out advise are thought on your situation. Wish you the best on your decision.

Answered by: marah2448 on 1/17/12
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