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Question:my girlfriend and i stay connected thru phone sex while we are apart. i am looking for new ways to turn her on and want to stay connected. any ideas?

We try and engage in phone sex at least once a week while we are apart. Sometimes it is easy to get into it andother times i just want to skip to the good stufd. I like when she takes control. How do i become more verbal and in contol and get her really turned on like she does me.

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